Attitude is Everything !!

The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, the education, the money, than circumstances, than failure, than successes, than what people say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness, or skill. It will make or break a heart, a future, a home. The remarkable thing is: we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past, we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you. We are in charge of our attitudes!

First Yourself !

 Not everything in life revolves around meeting another person to be with. Yes, it’s great to have someone adore you, but it’s more important to find the things in yourself that make you special and adorable. Before you can find who’s right for you, you have to become the person you’re meant to be. 

What N If..... :/

What’ and ‘if’ two words as nonthreatening as words come. But put them together side-by-side and they have the power to haunt you for the rest of your life: ‘What if?’… I don’t know how your story ended. But I know that if what you felt then was love - true love - then it’s never too late. If it was true then it why wouldn’t it be true now? You need only the courage to follow your heart… I don’t know what a love like that feels like… a love to leave loved ones for, a love to cross oceans for… but I’d like to believe if I ever felt it. I’d have the courage to seize it. I hope you had the courage to seize it. And if you didn’t, I hope one day that you will :)

The Best Offer !

Just because the road ahead is long, is no reason to slow down. Just because there is much work to be done, is no reason to get discouraged. It is a reason to get started, to grow, to find new ways, to reach within yourself and discover strength, commitment, determination, discipline. The road ahead is long, and difficult, and filled with opportunity at every turn. Start what needs starting. Finish what needs finishing. Get on the road. Stay on the road. Get on with the work. Right now you’re at the beginning of the journey. What a great place to be! Just imagine all the things you’ll learn, all the people you’ll meet, all the experiences you’ll have. Be thankful that the road is long and challenging,because that is where you’ll find the best that life has to offer.

Find Your Way !

If you’re feeling frightened about what comes next, don’t be. Embrace the uncertainty. Allow it to lead you places. Be brave as it challenges you to exercise both your heart and your mind as you create your own path towards happiness, don’t waste time with regret. Spin wildly into your next action. Enjoy the present, each moment, as it comes; because you’ll never get another one quite like it. And if you should ever look up and find yourself lost, simply take a breath and start over. Retrace your steps and go back to the purest place in your heart, where your hope lives. You’ll find your way again.

The One !

  If he still sees the beauty in you and still falls more in love with you after seeing  your weird facial expressions, your unusual laugh, your constant complaining,  your ugly days, your pig out days, the way you toss and turn in your sleep, your  stupid jokes, the way you ask questions about the thing you should already know  the answers to but he answers them anyway, your obsession with strange things, your random sounds, and your immaturity. Then you already know that this is the guy !

Create Happiness !

It's amazing isn't it that after so long ,I am like one waking up from a dream .You know those moments where you suddenly wake up ,not with a fright or scared but you wake up and you realise it was just a dream.... I 'm at that point but mine is not a dream .Not it's reality personifed ,birthed delivered and awaiting to grow.
Never miss out any moment, take time to laugh at yourself and do your happy dance in total ignorance of the world .Your life is too short not to be deliriously happy at least once in each day.

I guess it's easy to be happy now but I remember when I had forgotten to be happy .When I did not smile and chose to find fault in life .Somewhere along the line I took a decision to be happy .To find joy in the smallest of things ,to find a smile even at the most random of times .I wish you smiles and chuckles ,life can throw you a curveball and what seems like a cliche at that moment may be all you need .

It's easy to stand in the corner and let life pass by ,it's hard to jump in but even harder to jump in ,swim against the current and enjoy it. It's like we are waiting for one cataclysmic event that announces that now you are allowed to be happy.Don't wait for it ,create your moments of happiness 

You know when you are happy and you feel it in the bottom of your belly and it creates a resounding echo throughout your body ? Bask in it and when you open your eyes in that moment you will see that happiness looks gorgeous on you.

Losing Something !

Every one of us is losing something precious to us. Lost opportunities, lost possibilities, feelings we can never get back again. That’s part of what it means to be alive. But inside our heads- at least that’s where I imagine it- there’s a little room where we store those memories. A room like the stacks in this library. And to understand the workings of our own heart, we have to keep on making new reference cards. We have to dust things for every once in a while, let in fresh air, change the water in the flower vases. In other words, you’ll live forever in your own little private library.