Soul mates !!!

Do you believe in what people call ‘soulmates’? I, for one, do not. I’ve been told my way of looking at love is cynical but I don’t think so. I believe that a person call fall in love with anyone, given the timing is right. People fall in and out of your life, I don’t believe in destiny, things happen for no reason and you are left to try to control it – although you know you can’t. I only try to convince myself things are meant to be when something negative happens. But in the end, I don’t think it works like that.

My friends are not my friends because they are better than other people – I’ve learned to love them by being around them and getting to know them. If I spent time with most people, granted they weren’t extremely rude and had no interest in me, I could probably love them just as much as I love my friends now.

But some things I find harder to explain, like the way you can meet people who just feel right for you. But then again, this might also be coincidence – and timing.

But do not mistake me, if there is something I believe in it is love.

The GLASS !

Let me ask you a classic question:

Is your glass half-full … or half-empty?

This is a difficult question to answer. The logical answer would be “The glass is at 50% of its total carrying capacity”. But we know this is a question of perspective. If you answer “half-full”, you are happy. If you answer “half-empty”, you are sad. Those are the only choices … right?

Wrong. For some people, “half-full” and “half-empty” don’t describe how they feel. For some, their glass is more than half-full, or full or overflowing. And for others … their glass is less than half-empty … or empty … or broken.

But you can’t answer, “my glass is shattered into a million pieces on the floor”. That’s not one of the choices. Nor is “my glass is empty”. And you can’t answer “half-empty” because then people assume that you’re attention seeking … or something else.

But it seems to be acceptable to answer, “my glass is full” or “my glass is overflowing” … even though they’re not the choices you are given.

So my answer to the question would have to be “my glass is half-full”. It’s the only one people want to hear.

What’s your answer? 

LIFE : Live It... Love It

Life is about making decisions and not looking back.
Life is about living, loving, and laughing. Don’t forget that.
Life is about learning from your mistakes, and from others.
Life is about never giving up, even if you’re afraid.
Life is about going through your life, happy and content.
Life is about helping the people who need it.
Life is about caring, and sharing, and daring to dream for hope.
Life is about voicing your thoughts; even when you think nobody’s listening, they are.
Life is about taking the time to give someone some hope.
Life is about being the best you can be, but never forgetting who you are, or what you believe in.
Life is about living up to your own standards, not to others.
Life is about taking care of the people you love, and who love you.
Life is about standing up in a time of despair, and being there for those who have no one.
Life is about whatever you want it to be.
Life is about never losing sight of the future.
Life is about always shooting for your dreams, whatever they may be…
Life is about living.
Life is about problems and creating solutions.
Life is about finding something out of nothing.


This is for you Hajjjs :) thank u for always being there for me. u r the greatest friend anyone could ever ask for. so cheer up n be the person you are.. cos i would never want you to change, just would help u be a better person n wish u all the happiness in the world :) i just hope this post will inspire you and motivate you enough to stay strong n brave :D xoxo

The Girl Behind The Mask.

She knows she may never see tomorrow there is no written guarantee, and things that happened yesterday belong to history. she cannot predict the future... she cannot change the past. she have just the present moment, she must treat it as her last. she must use this moment wisely, for it soon will pass away, and be lost to her forever as a part as yesterday. she must exercise compassion, help the fallen to their feet, be a friend unto the friendless, make an empty life complete. The unkind things she do today, may never be undone, and the friendships that she fail to win may never be won. she may not have another chance on bended knees to pray and thank Allah with humble heart for giving her this day.
And to hide all this she wear a mask hoping they would never see, not just a reflection but what is left of her, A girl that has been rejected and a battle that she has never won and the only way out is saying that she has done. she has been let down and told she was wrong, and the only preserving she has is staying strong. she is afraid she is losing her fight, so she is holding back the tears, she wants to give up but losing is her greatest fear.....
There are so much she has to live for and so much left to see, and if you know her potential you will know this girl was me !

Grow Old With You :)

“Love isn’t an act; it’s a whole life. It’s staying with her now because she needs you; it’s knowing you and she will still care about each other when sex and daydreams, fights and futures – when all that’s on the shelf and done with. Love – why, I’ll tell you what love is: it’s you at seventy-five and her at seventy-one, each of you listening for the other’s step in the next room, each afraid that a sudden silence, a sudden cry, could mean a lifetime’s talk is over.” -Brain Moore- 

Thats Why I want to grow old with you and find out what really love is.. how it feels to spend the rest of my life with you with all ur flaws n mistakes.. with all the fights n imperfection :) n if we survive till then then i will say yes OURS WAS ONE TRUE LOVE STORY:)

When Songs Speaks My Feelings...

Songs sometimes have a way of saying all I want to say. So I’ll let these lyrics speak for me today.

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I cried a tear, you wiped it dry
I was confused, you cleared my mind
I sold my soul, you bought it back for me
And held me up and gave me dignity
Somehow you needed me

I can’t believe it’s true
I needed you and you were there
And I’ll never leave, why should I leave
I’d be a fool
‘Cause I finally found someone who really cares

You held my hand when it was cold
When I was lost you took me home
You gave me hope when I was at the end
And turned my lies back into truth again
You even called me “friend”

You gave me strength to stand alone
To face the world out on my own
You put me high upon a pedestal
So high that I could almost see eternity
You needed me, you needed me

- Lyrics by Anne Murray

That Kind Of Man

Every girl needs a man … the kind that will treat you right as well as others; the kind that has respect for himself, family & others. The kind that searches for you with his heart; the kind that can be trusted alone with a room full of many other beautiful ladies; the kind that will never cheat on you cause he knows he’s got all he wants and needs already. The kind of man that wants to be your friend. The kind that doesn’t mind calling you early in the morning to say good morning and late at night to say good night; the kind that will do anything for you, even if it’s just to buy your favourite kind of candy. One that calls you just to tell you that he loves you and misses you a lot. The kind that appreciates you for the things you do for him, even if they’re little. The kind that is willing to wait for you when you’re falling behind, the kind that will actually open the door for you, take you out on dates once in a while and buy you flowers cause it’s a Wednesday. The kind that reminds you that he loves you and that he’s happy with you in case you forget, the kind that just doesn’t want kisses but hugs too. The kind that calls you “beautiful” sometimes not just “hot.” The kind that kisses your forehead when you’re down, the kind that will go through thick & thin for and with you.

The kind that just loves you just for who you are.

Isn't Their Someone Out Their Who Is Worthy Of My Trust ?

The strength is kind of an illusion..

I'm strong because I think I have to be not because I want to be. I've come to know that My "strength" is fear ba sed.

it's kind of a stubborn/foolish pride kind of strength too, I'll admit it. I know it's not something to boast about, but I'm not perfect and I won't ever be.

at the same time I am not ashamed to break down and cry in public or do silly things, especially when my emotions get too strong. I'm self-assured enough to know that other people have moments of weakness too, that doesn't mean they're not strong.

I see no shame in being vulnerable no matter what others may say. Call me psycho, I don't care. I already know I am.

I have struggled with many things in life because they seem to be about lies, mistrust and broken promises. I can't stand that I've told myself I'm probably better off without all that more times than I can count. I'm a strong woman, I can make my own way, I have friends and a few family members that I trust. Sometimes I do wish for something more with someone... !